Annoyance

[poliphilo]

I don't like my father-in-law. I find it hard to be polite to him or even sit in the same room. There are reasons for this, some of which must- in the nature of things- reflect discredit on me. I've written about all this in the past and I don't want to go over it again.  Some people- all of them as far as I can see people of his own generation- find him a thoroughly decent bloke. I think the antipathy is probably deeper than the facts of the case warrant. Even if I knew nothing to his discredit I wouldn't want to be around him. Call it a magnetic repulsion.

He's been in failing health for several years now- and Ailz and I are the ones who have to deal with it day in, day out.  It would be nice if I felt something other than annoyance.

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[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

Yes, you're right, us in-laws have a duty to tolerate our partners' insufferable parents.

I keep contact with Dot and Eric to a minimum. When they come for their weekly visit I sit in another room. otherwise I might very well be actively, rather than merely passively, rude to them.