Everyday Racism
Apr. 16th, 2008 09:01 amThe guy has come to replace the boiler. The new boiler will be 31% more efficient, he says. He arrived on time and spent the first 20 minutes telling us about his friend the boffin and how his friend the boffin once made a artificial heart valve and how his friend the boffin used to fine tune motor bikes.
I thought, I don't know why you're telling us all this but maybe it's a ploy to put us at our ease. A technique.
Then he asked us- apropos of nothing- if we'd been "invaded".
I thought Ailz fielded it adroitly. She said we got on very well with our neighbours and since they were mostly muslims we didn't got bothered by drunks wobbling up and down the street on Friday nights.
It sort of killed the conversation though.
I thought, I don't know why you're telling us all this but maybe it's a ploy to put us at our ease. A technique.
Then he asked us- apropos of nothing- if we'd been "invaded".
I thought Ailz fielded it adroitly. She said we got on very well with our neighbours and since they were mostly muslims we didn't got bothered by drunks wobbling up and down the street on Friday nights.
It sort of killed the conversation though.
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Date: 2008-04-16 09:29 am (UTC)I watched 'This is England' last night. Did you see that yet? Great movie- a hard watch, but very good. All about racism.
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Date: 2008-04-16 09:34 am (UTC)I haven't seen This England- that's the Shane Meadows movie about skinheads, right?
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Date: 2008-04-16 09:46 am (UTC)"Invaded". Being an immigrant myself, albeit a privileged one, comments like that still hit a bit too close to home.
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Date: 2008-04-16 10:31 am (UTC)Nothing more to say - racists are jerks.
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Date: 2008-04-16 12:33 pm (UTC)What is a boffin?
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Date: 2008-04-16 01:12 pm (UTC)Boffin is slang for scientist. The word is old-fashioned but
far from obsolete.
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Date: 2008-04-16 01:27 pm (UTC)We have a lot of that nonsense going on in my neighborhood as well. A neighbor from around the corner has started trying to get the corner store across the street from my house shut down. I cannot see any reason other than it is run by Muslims. It is putting me in an interesting position, since the guy around the corner is gay (as, of course, am I). But, this is ridiculous, since I have a much better relationship with the guys at the store than I do with that old busy-body drunkard around the corner.
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Date: 2008-04-16 01:58 pm (UTC)I'm intrigued by the icon. Western heroes/badmen, right? I'm thinking that's Wyatt Earp in the centre with Billy the Kid looking over his left shoulder. Are those the James boys to his right? As for the military man I'm going for Bloody Bill Anderson. What's my score out of 5?
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Date: 2008-04-16 02:16 pm (UTC)The icon is a picture of a band called Chariot. I don't know anything about the band, but I liked the picture because it had them all dressed in various Victorian era garb, which, in America is actually "Old West" or "Civil War" era.
Unfortunately, I am not sure what Chariot was thinking when they did the picture, but I think you have made good guesses. I would agree with them.
I chose it because I am in this Victorian Gothic kind of mood lately, and since I am an American, I thought it would be kind of cool to reflect that. Also, the guy in the center is looking out, but he is surrounded by all the other guys reflecting different aspects of the era.
I am a big fan of the Victorian Gothic novel. There is a school in Scotland that I would love to go to and get a Masters Degree in Gothic Literature.
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Date: 2008-04-16 04:56 pm (UTC)I've always loved the 19th and early 20th century ghost story. Le Fanu, Oliphant, James, James, de la Mare...
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Date: 2008-04-16 02:44 pm (UTC)Wonder what he says to them when he goes to fix their boilers?
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Date: 2008-04-17 07:29 pm (UTC)Another is, "Some of my best friends are Asian/black/gay, but..."
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Date: 2008-04-18 05:13 pm (UTC)Times change, don't they?
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Date: 2008-04-19 08:21 am (UTC)They need flags.
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Date: 2008-04-16 03:07 pm (UTC)Same thing with the Chinese contingent that live in my elderly building. No language in common, but genuine affection - and word-swapping.
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Date: 2008-04-17 09:51 am (UTC)It was the Pakistani chap from three doors down who put us in touch with Warmfront- the government agency that gave us the grant to have the boiler replaced.
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Date: 2008-04-17 05:17 pm (UTC)"Wise Woman Teacher-of-Many". I used to know how to say it in Lakota, but forgot - getting old, you know?
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