A Bit Of A Gripe

[poliphilo]

I understand that racists are not necessarily bad people- just frightened ones- afraid of difference, afraid of the unfamiliar. 

This doesn't mitigate the fact that racism is profoundly stupid- and destructive of civil society.

You have racist views.  Fine.  Please keep them to yourself.

But if you talk to me in ways that assume that I share your views don't be surprised if I take it as a personal  insult.

Comments

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

I suppose it's entirely possible to be a decent, kindly person and yet entirely stupid and gullible.

[daisytells.livejournal.com]

It is that! When I was involved in the Civil Rights movement over here, I was amazed at all the "nice" people who had attitudes like the one in which they stated "Well, the 'colored' are entitled to some rights after all -- at least the 'nice ones' are."
There was a lot of that among those majority people who were not actively and nastily fighting the Civil Rights movement in the streets.
Suffice to say that during the recent presidential campaign some of those very persons surfaced again, this time with reservations that "A black president probably won't get enough support to get anything done." That seems to have become a self-fulfilling prophecy, except for the fact that Obama is a Democrat, and that it is Republicans who are bucking his every effort. Not at all a racial issue, even though some would make it so.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

It's the "some of my best friends are black" syndrome.

[michaleen.livejournal.com]

I hope so. Stupidity can be compartmentalized, such that someone who is ordinarily competent in some areas may be dumber than a box of rocks in others. Perhaps decency works that way too.

At any rate, these particular racists happen to be my parents and relatives and the chances of obtaining a fresher, more palatable bunch this late in the game are rather slim.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

It's like the nazis. They spent the day exterminating Jews, then went home and were kind to their dogs.

[michaleen.livejournal.com]

Yes, however uncomfortable such images make us. I remember reading about how Mengele cried when his wolfhound was killed by the electric fence at Auschwitz.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

Jonathan Littel's novel The Kindly Ones demonstrates how it was perfectly possible to be an SS officer and at the same time a person of genuine sensibility

[michaleen.livejournal.com]

How disturbing. I think it's difficult to embrace such things, the notion that evil might not be consistent, in terms of behavior, and never as obvious to the eye as we imagine. Then again, there seems to be a constant drumbeat of reminders, while we remain somewhat willfully oblivious to the facts. I live next door to a veteran of the war in Vietnam. Jim is a kind and gentle old fellow, but the tales of his part in a very dirty war tell a different story.