Cleaning Up My Act
Mar. 11th, 2009 09:51 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
poliphiloI dust the model village and its inhabitants with a little, retractable brush that came out of Ailz's make-up bag. The dust curls away like smoke, vanishing into the air to settle someplace else. That was always my objection to housework; you only ever move the gunk around; it's a treadmill you never get off.
A bit like life, in fact.
Life as housework. Keeping the dust at bay- the dust to which we shall all return.
Brrrrrrr......
I was never a great one for housework- and it's not just because I'm a bloke. My three primary female role models- my mother and two grandmothers- were exactly the same. As middle-class, mid-century women they used to pay people (poorer women) to do it for them.
And then there's the Bohemian thing. How very bourgeois it is to care about appearances- and what the neighbours think. Dirt and dust are real. Like sex, like death. Embrace them all!
But, I don't know, I seem to be changing. These past few weeks I've taken to carrying a duster in my pocket. Now, if I find myself at a loose end, I can whip it out and drag it across surfaces. The dust is encroaching and will win in the end- but I intend to go down fighting. Non passeran!
We have friends from church coming to tea this afternoon and I have been tidying, dusting- even mopping floors. And because these are friends from church I have temporarily purged the model village of its "figures of an erotic nature". (Check 'em out here.) I lift the little, naked people out of the castle keep, tickle them all over with the retractable make-up brush and put them away in a cupboard. The dust swirls and disappears. Does this make me a hypocrite?
A bit like life, in fact.
Life as housework. Keeping the dust at bay- the dust to which we shall all return.
Brrrrrrr......
I was never a great one for housework- and it's not just because I'm a bloke. My three primary female role models- my mother and two grandmothers- were exactly the same. As middle-class, mid-century women they used to pay people (poorer women) to do it for them.
And then there's the Bohemian thing. How very bourgeois it is to care about appearances- and what the neighbours think. Dirt and dust are real. Like sex, like death. Embrace them all!
But, I don't know, I seem to be changing. These past few weeks I've taken to carrying a duster in my pocket. Now, if I find myself at a loose end, I can whip it out and drag it across surfaces. The dust is encroaching and will win in the end- but I intend to go down fighting. Non passeran!
We have friends from church coming to tea this afternoon and I have been tidying, dusting- even mopping floors. And because these are friends from church I have temporarily purged the model village of its "figures of an erotic nature". (Check 'em out here.) I lift the little, naked people out of the castle keep, tickle them all over with the retractable make-up brush and put them away in a cupboard. The dust swirls and disappears. Does this make me a hypocrite?
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Date: 2009-03-17 07:34 pm (UTC)No, it's part of being a host, to keep things simple and not too startling.
Your guests will be interested enough in your juxtapositions of goddesses and crucifixes! That should make for good conversations!
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Date: 2009-03-17 10:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-03-17 10:42 pm (UTC)I am smiling! :)
Oh, the rabbits! Did your guests meet them?