One Of Several Reasons

 My mother is heavy and increasingly increasingly prone to buckle at the knees and I said several weeks ago that I was going to stop moving her between the bed and the commode because of the risk she'll end up on the floor and/or I'll strain my back but there are times I can't avoid it- like when she calls and I go in and find her already perched on the edge of the bed and feeling for the arm of the commode- which has happened twice in the last twelve hours.  

This is one reason- there are others- why we need to rehome her. 

My sister has found a nursing home in Godalming that we think will suit. I'm hoping we'll be able to seal the deal later  today.