Foot Spas, Blackbirds And Reincarnation

[poliphilo]

1. Ailz acquired a foot spa off Freecycle the other day. We went and picked it up and the man who handed it over at the door called me, "my man" twice in the course of thirty seconds. In the far off and long ago "my man" was how rich men in wind-up motor cars addressed  simple, smock-wearing country folk when they had to stop and ask them for directions. It was patronising to the point of insult. Coming from a scruffy-looking bloke in a council house it presumably has other connotations- but I can't say I liked it much.

I just topped the spa up with nearly-boiling water from the kettle. Ailz seems to be enjoying herself. There are bubbles.

2.The blackbirds who nest in our ivy have successfully raised one brood this summer and are now raising another. This makes me happy. One cannot have too many blackbirds.

3. Michael Newton- author of Journey of Souls-  says we enter into a covenant not to remember past incarnations when our souls return to earth. We have lessons to learn- and it's better we start with a clean slate.  Our responses will be fresher if events surprise us-  and the task will seem more urgent if we don't realise we have lives to burn. Yes-  fair enough-  but to know what I was is to know who I am- and I'm finding it really frustrating to be kept in the dark.

Comments

[baritonejeff.livejournal.com]

Here in the US, "my man", especially in the African-American community, is akin to "friend" (as in "let's talk about my man Tony"), or used colloquially much the sane as "dude", "buddy", or "bro", as a form of conversational addressing ("You know, my man, I'm really into baseball.")

Can't speak as to its use in GB.

Hear's to bubbles and blackbirds!

[jackiejj.livejournal.com]

"My man" to my American ears sounds friendly and even respectful, but it's also the sound of it, I guess--how he said it.

I once went inside a used furniture store near a railroad track, and the store was dark and creepy, and out of the dim back room came a little old man who said "What for you, Sister?" and I fled, insulted and scared at the same time.

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I like thinking about Ailz having foot bubble-baths!

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As for reincarnation: Who makes up these rules about Lessons? I mean the on-high overseers who do this? Some council? (I picture gods in togas around a table, using notebooks and golden pens)

In my awful cynicism (which I have resisted for years until it's too tiring to fight anymore) I think (curling my lip--how I hate being so awful about it): "How convenient, that we can't remember our past lives.

Then I try to work it out--all these people on earth, all having lessons! Surely lots of them are new souls. (I've read that "new souls" get planted in remote places, like hillsides in central Asia, so they can adjust to being humans)

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

The guy with the foot spa was white, but I guess he may have been clued into black American culture- a lot of British people are these days.

In Britain, "my man" has the implication of ownership. It's a master-servant thing. As in the P.G. Wodehouse title- "My Man, Jeeves."

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

"Sister" is insulting? You do surprise me. It sounds like equality-talk to me. I associate that kind of intimacy with black people and Quakers.

Gods in togas may not be too far from the mark.

I really recommend Michael Newton's Journey of Souls- and its sequels. My very clever daughter recommended it to me- and now I'm a believer. Newton is a hypnotherapist who found, by accident, he could regress people to their life between lives. I've looked hard at what he says- and scouted the Internet for people accusing him of fraud- and I've come to the conclusion he's a straight-up dude.

[jackiejj.livejournal.com]

Thanks for the book idea, Tony. I'll look for it.

[bodhibird.livejournal.com]

Buddhists have a useful saying about past lives: If you want to know what your past lives were like, look at the conditions of your present life. If you want to know what your future lives will be like, look at your behavior in your present life.

By this logic, all of us First-World people must've been pretty virtuous in previous lives. Next time, though....

I try not to think too much about past lives. I have too much of a tendency to get stuck in the past of this life.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

That would be good.

I'd love to discuss it with you.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

That's a good way of looking at it. Yes, all we really need to know is where we're at right now. My problem is I'm just insatiably curious.

[jackiejj.livejournal.com]

I've just ordered it via Amazon and will definitely want to discuss it with you, too.

It will be here next week.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

Excellent.

(We're going down to my mother's tomorrow. Back home Friday.)

[wyrmwwd.livejournal.com]

I agree with you. My man has a feeling of ownership to it, but then, I am an American who is very much tied to British culture.

Reincarnation: I have a few strong Past Life memories. Ultimately, they mostly serve to reinforce my belief in reincarnation and this, in turn, serves to comfort me in times of stress or loss. Some people in my life I know have been with me for lifetime after lifetime. There are conflicts that I seem to not be able to resolve, yet, that is ok. That means that we will come back again to work on them. That is strangely comforting to me, because there are people in my life that I would rather fight with than do without. I also really enjoy the physicality of being alive. I hate to think that I would Ascend and leave all of this behind. Therefor, on some level, I RESIST learning my lessons, because I enjoy the ride.

I had a anxiety attack some years back that we thought was a heart attack. When faced with the possibility of dying, I was strangely calm. My belief in reincarnation is very firm, it seems.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

"Lifetime after lifetime"- yes, I believe that's how it works. We all belong to a small peer group of souls and incarnate with them time and time again.

Have you come across Michael Newton's Journey of Souls?- It's a fascinating book and very much confirms all that I felt that I knew.

I've had occasional hints of past lives. The most vivid came in a dream where I was part of the crew of a medieval trading ship. It was an exceptional dream- very much more intensely felt and seen than is usually the case.

[ibid.livejournal.com]

I've been called my man!

[pondhopper.livejournal.com]

I saw two nests of blackbirds fledge very close to a bedroom window in Spain. They were about 6 feet from the window and it was lovely watching them every day until they left. They sing so beautifully.

I think I would very much like to read Journey of Souls. There are feelings I've been trying to ignore that make me think of where I might have been, instant recognition of places I have never visited in this life and a sense of affinity with places that have nothing to do with my immediate and traceable ancestry.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

Ha!

And I don't suppose you liked it either :)

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

Journey of Souls is a remarkable book. It convinced me- and I like to think of myself as a sceptic.

I had a feeling of connection when I was in Durham earlier this year. Some cathedrals leave we cold, but Durham moved me deeply. I'd been there once before- but only on a flying visit- and I have no family connections that I know of with the area.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

P.S. I hope I'm not being nosey, but I'd love to know which places you feel connected with.

[ibid.livejournal.com]

I didn't mind. I don't feel especially feminine.

[richenda.livejournal.com]

Perhaps he had heard it used by someone who was joking, but didn't understand the long ago context?
I actually thought that it was how men referred to their personal servants - never heard of smock-wearers being called that. Wouldn't they down tools immediately on the grounds that they are labourers and therefore vastly superior to manservants?
I know of someone whose husband constantly calls everyone "squire" because a delivery man called him that. The same man introduces himself with "I'm Mr X" because he worked for a rather pretentious firm that required its employees to address each other formally.

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

I think it was- once upon a time- a form of address used by self-important people to anyone they saw as a social inferior.

One that amuses me is the custom round here of addressing people as "young man". I still get it sometimes- and even from people who are not obviously older than myself. I'm never quite sure how to take it.

[pondhopper.livejournal.com]

I don't mind at all. It fascinates me when people talk about that sort of thing. All my intense feelings of connection have happened in places in England. The very first time I visited England many years ago I flew into Manchester and took a train to Lancaster. When we got off the train at Lancaster I had a really eerie sense of knowing the place. Now, I've traveled a lot and to many countries. I've never had that sense of belonging anywhere else. We took a train to London that same week. I do not like big cities but London? I felt absolutely comfortable there, too, right from the start and most especially in Bloomsbury. There are other areas that said nothing to me. But I feel like I walk the streets of Bloomsbury with a purpose, as if I were walking home. What connection there is between Lancaster and Bloomsbury I don't know. But there you have it.

It's not just a matter of liking a place either. I had a real sense of coming home and I am driven to return time and time again to England. It's almost a need.

More recently, in Ely Cathedral I was overwhelmed by a sense of connection.
Now that was weird.

One other bit...I don't have a very good sense of direction but in London I could get around so easily without a map. I just knew where to go.

[besideserato.livejournal.com]

It's interesting what Michael Newton says. I believe it to an extent, which is why I am hesitant of engaging in past life regression therapy. Have you ever done anything like that? Do you believe in it? Do you think it's all BS?

[manfalling.livejournal.com]

I'm curious how you reconcile a belief in the soul and in past lives with modern science- the selfish gene of Dawkins and so on. Granted, they don't actually cancel each other out, but the one does seem to make the other a bit ludicrous.

Look at evolution- we came from monkeys who ultimately came from fish, our brains are just complex computers to hold the complex programs of our minds. Where does reincarnation fit into that? Do monkeys reincarnate, and have a divine presence watching over their 'lessons'? Do fish? What is the cut-off point, bearing in mind we share something like 97% of our DNA with chimpanzees?

From another angle, I'm curious what the 'lessons' of reincarnation are supposed to add up to. An enlightened being? But enlightened by whose moral compass and to what end goal? Or do you look on it as a kind of evolution, with no known goal in mind, only a progression steadily moving forwards towards something we know not what?

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

I think you've said it- they don't actually cancel one another out. You can no more disprove the existence of the soul than you can prove it. People like Dawkins start with a Victorian materialistic mind-set and find all the evidence falling into place for them. That's what we all do, pretty much. We start with a premise and then go on to prove it- using evidence selected and tailored to our case.

Do monkeys reincarnate? Yes probably. But I think the human soul is special.

What are we learning? Love and wisdom, I suppose. But if we could define the end we wouldn't still be taking the lessons, would we?

[poliphilo.livejournal.com]

I'm a believer. Newton seems like a straight-up guy. I haven't done past life regression myself, but my daughter has- and I believe in her experience. One thing that makes it convincing is that the lives she remembers are so ineffably humdrum.