I wouldn't want to create the impression that I go round "effing and blinding" all the time. Context is all. I watch my language round the old folks and am cautious with strangers- until I've gauged their sensitivities. Our decorator Carl- who's a good friend- made the mistake of saying he found "cunt" a disgusting word- so now Ailz and I make a point of working it into the conversation as much as we possibly can whenever he's around.