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poliphilo ([personal profile] poliphilo) wrote2005-10-12 06:58 am

Closure?

We wound ourselves up with jokes about going to Mordor (the sky obligingly clouded over and it started to rain) but when we actually arrived at the Duchess of Kent Hospital in Catterick everything was very pleasant and unmilitary and the very nice psychiatrist spent an hour and a half with Joe and concluded by telling him that he'd write a letter to his (Joe's) C.O. recommending he be discharged.

So that was it? Apparently so.

I came away feeling rather flat.

But, of course, it's wonderful. Joe can now get on with the rest of his life....
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[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
Yay, indeed.

[identity profile] dadi.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so happy to read this!

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
I guess it's the end of the beginning, Now he has to start thinking about getting a job.

[identity profile] shullie.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
so glad for Joe and it must be a big releif to you too

xxx

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 07:59 am (UTC)(link)
It's a huge relief. I can't quite believe it's been resolved so simply.

[identity profile] karenkay.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 05:22 am (UTC)(link)
Woohoo!!!

I can see that it's kind of anticlimactic after the other night.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 08:00 am (UTC)(link)
I thought we'd have a fight on our hands.....

[identity profile] jackiejj.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
I came here first thing this morning to see if there might be a resolution for Joe, and there is! I'm so glad.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
It's a great relief.

[identity profile] halfmoon-mollie.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 05:49 am (UTC)(link)
wonderful news for Joe and for you.

He CAN get on with the rest of his life. I will never understand why it's so easy to get into the Armed Forces and so difficult to get out of them.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 08:02 am (UTC)(link)
"I will never understand why it's so easy to get into the Armed Forces and so difficult to get out of them."

Me neither. But I guess the dice are always loaded in favour of the powerful.

[identity profile] queen-in-autumn.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
So glad to hear this!

It seems to happen this way a lot: Really Big Episodes ultimately getting resolved in a very quiet, mundane.

My rational mind may say, better a quiet chat with a doc than the Battle of Peleannor Field, but there's another part of me that would have liked to triumph in high drama, with a John Williams soundtrack behind me.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 08:05 am (UTC)(link)
We've been so psyched up about this that the resolution seems unreal.

I reckon it'll take me a while to get used to the new situation.

[identity profile] karenkay.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it's not over until he actually gets his discharge papers.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 08:51 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, that's true and there's the possibility that the C.O. could reject the psychiatrist's advice.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2005-10-12 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
It's unlikely...

Amnd there could be no real motive for it but vindictiveness.