Parallel Worlds
Nov. 30th, 2014 01:01 pmIf it's truly the case that every time we make a major life decision we generate a parallel universe in which the alternative choice is explored then there's going to be a reality (as real/unreal as this is) in which I'm still a clergyman and presently contemplating retirement.
Is that other self as satisfied with his mid-life decision as I am? Has he made a success of the career I abandoned? Is he married or single? Is he still grinding away at parish life or has he- as I thought of doing- moved into academe? Does he have an LJ?
Is that other self as satisfied with his mid-life decision as I am? Has he made a success of the career I abandoned? Is he married or single? Is he still grinding away at parish life or has he- as I thought of doing- moved into academe? Does he have an LJ?
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Date: 2014-11-30 03:48 pm (UTC)So, there are an uncountable number of yous, some of whom are satisfied with it, some of whom aren't, some of whom decided to become Buddhist monks, some of whom who were struck by lightning and died, some of whom have killed over a hundred people in random bicycle accidents...
They ALL exist.
"What-ifs" aren't worth it, because they ALL are true. If you made different decisions, you would have regretted them and been satisfied with them. They would have led to a better life, a worse life, death, life, marriage, and every other outcome.
All of them.
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Date: 2014-11-30 04:31 pm (UTC)The only thing is, you won't be able to visit or put an insight into this other path due to lack of possibilities (perhaps it even is better so; how many SciFi movies have pointed out that such actions would create a paradox which would disprove the rules of life as it is?).
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Date: 2014-11-30 06:22 pm (UTC)I can accept that in theory- as a proposition- but it's very hard to grasp emotionally.
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Date: 2014-11-30 06:41 pm (UTC)And more things true than are told."
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Date: 2014-11-30 08:03 pm (UTC)I can identify closely with most of what you've done so far.
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Date: 2014-11-30 09:05 pm (UTC)If all decisions generate alternate universes, then your life is being fragmented and rebuilt all the time, regardless of which choice you make- what another lifeform in a distant galaxy does is just as likely to spawn a split. What an uninhabited planet, orphaned and whirling through the void between systems, does can as well. I assume reality is like water, flowing into every available crack and space, and every possibility that can be reached is an occupied position.
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Date: 2014-12-03 09:42 am (UTC)I suppose an infinite, eternal mind would be able to keep up with an infinite number of alternate universes, but I'd prefer to think there was some mechanism for limiting their number.