poliphilo: (corinium)
poliphilo ([personal profile] poliphilo) wrote2014-03-20 08:13 pm

And The Consequence Was...

That Ailz has sent her mother a note telling her politely but firmly that she's not putting up with any more nonsense.
ext_550458: (Jessica rebel)

[identity profile] strange-complex.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Good for Ailz. I hope it makes her mother rethink her priorities - or at very least back off a little.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the likeliest thing is she'll break off all contact. It's what she's done in the past.

[identity profile] pondhopper.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Good! I hope Ailz can stick to her resolve because her mother will whinge and complain a lot about this.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
If she does she'll be told to stop.

But the likeliest thing is she'll break off all contact.
sovay: (Sovay: David Owen)

[personal profile] sovay 2014-03-20 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
That Ailz has sent her mother a note telling her politely but firmly that she's not putting up with any more nonsense.

Great! I hope her mother actually reads it.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a very brief note. Even if she only reads the first few lines she'll have gotten the drift.

[identity profile] athenais.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I had a conversation like that with my father once. He opted to back off. Here's hoping.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-20 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
One possibility is she'll back off so far we'll never see her again. She doesn't take kindly to being challenged.

[identity profile] cmcmck.livejournal.com 2014-03-21 08:34 am (UTC)(link)
Well done Ailz!

Sadly, this sometimes needs to happen.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-21 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes.

[identity profile] veronica-milvus.livejournal.com 2014-03-21 09:26 am (UTC)(link)
Wish I'd done that with my mother. Good luck Ailz, it's no use, keeping on coming back to be punched again.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-22 08:42 am (UTC)(link)
Talking to her mother-or visiting her- makes Ailz miserable- every time. She needed to put her foot down.

[identity profile] ideealisme.livejournal.com 2014-03-21 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad to hear that. Family can be the unsafest place and I'm glad Ailz is not putting up with it any more.

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-22 08:47 am (UTC)(link)
"Unsafe" is putting it mildly. Family is one of the most dangerous environments there is- not in every case, of course, but rather too often.

[identity profile] amritarosa.livejournal.com 2014-03-21 08:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Good for Aliz!

[identity profile] poliphilo.livejournal.com 2014-03-22 08:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yes!