My mother pauses in the hall and goes, "Oh!", the way she does when something has displeased her. I gather myself together and prepare for the worst. I find her gazing at the fruit bowl. "What enormous bananas," she says.
I do feel that viscerally. My parents were such a source of irritation and I could never guess what was going to get up their noses next. My cousin has the same problem with my Lovely Auntie, but somehow I can remain unruffled at her foibles. Good luck.
I meant close in terms of genetic relationship- child-parent-brother-sister: those are so often the toughest to handle- mainly because when we're that close we feel we have a "right" to mess about in one another's lives.
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