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poliphilo ([personal profile] poliphilo) wrote2024-04-19 07:40 am

Belonging

 "Are you visitors?" asked the lady who was also looking at jewellery in the antique/junk shop. "No", said Ailz, " We live in Eastbourne." 

It always gives me a a kick- a little jolt of belonging and local pride- to hear that stated...

We are in fact valued customers of that particular shop- meaning we bought a ring there once before. The shop-lady recognised us- and that felt good as well. 

It's a shop where you have to ring the bell and get buzzed in.  A bunch of teenagers- boys and girls-  probably foreign students and harmless-  buzzed and got turned away. The shoplady explained herself to us; it was almost an apology. Big shop. Lots of cabinets to hide behind. Impossible for one person to monitor....

Earlier I was sitting in the courtyard at the Meeting House, in the sun with J- who is a Quaker of very long standing- explaining Quakerism to a woman who had dropped by for the Thursday morning Meeting for Worship....