Sure, I'll visit. But plane tickets costing what they do and my vacation time allotment being as pitiful as it is, I'll be lucky to get over once a year. The ultimate plan is for me to try and move over there but finding a way around all the red tape is problematic. We are polyamorous and marriage is not an option. His primary partner will be living with him and our relationship is too new for me to move in with them so I'd need my own place as well. Many hurdles.